Of course you will, even the hero. Of course the only one close to understanding 50 years of torment is me, not you. But I'm sure you'll pander and fawn and try to pull her out of it and make her who she was.
She is protective, she's also wrong. I don't need you with me, or Kol for that matter but she'll fret if I don't allow it.
You do realise we can just compel him to flip the switch back, right? Save a lot of effort for Miss Branson. Rebekah of course will require her special brand of annoying.