Please be okay with this. Nik's right in that Elijah, okay will probably sulk a bit that things weren't done "properly" but he can't actually refuse me anything and Nik was never ever going to be okay with things.
But you're you and I love you and you're the one I need to be okay with this the most. And when I'm back and doing a proper wedding and all, you're the one I really want to be there.