You're certainly not twelve anymore... but I've already caught onto the whole time thing so I suppose it shouldn't be such a shock.
But you're right, I'm only now meeting her and feeling like but I can see that. Though I'm fairly certain I'm the last person who will judge someone for whom they love, Remus. The important thing is that you two care for one another. Everything else can be worked around. I never knew her as a child so