Jacen
Because I can read? And use my thinking and guessing skills. So unless this post has nothing to do with your sister's - and no, I didn't read it no matter how much I wanted to. You have no idea how hard that was - ... I figured that the usual process with dealing with family might fit here. Venting and/or crying and/or beating stuff up and/or alcohol. I don't think either of us would be comfortable with you crying on my shoulder.
If I am wrong and you're still? still avoiding her. Then say so. So I can tell you that you're being a