I think on something like this, with her, maybe I'm too close. You can be more unbiased on Stefan than I can.
...How does that even work? He's just randomly deciding hey, the tiny blonde will complete my life? I mean tiny blondes do have magical awesome powers. But no.
I think he's messed up, but I also think I'm tired of being the token vamp he can rag on or point to as an example of how with it he is