Cas
Well. Yeah, honestly. Because you might not think it now, but the stuff you're currently using as distractions can turn out really badly. Addictions and self destruction.
When I died, I could still watch what was going on here. I saw what happened to my little sister. She couldn't cope after my death and she went down the drinking and distractions path and she ended up killing herself. I can't watch you doing the same.
Having a drink now and then with friends is one thing, that's fun, I do that. But getting drunk as a distraction is not healthy. Getting drunk and then fighting is even less healthy.