Helena
So few people are willing to see where they went wrong, to see what they did, instead content to ignore it as it is being shouted in their face. People do not like at admit to being wrong and so that is a very large obstacle when it comes to trying to reunite and rebuild a connection. But the rare people exist and if they are willing to work on it, then that is a connection worth saving beyond all others. For they are the people who may let you down but will find a true way to make amends and not just shallow words.
How can one know what happiness is if they have nothing to compare it to? As much as there are things within my past I would wish not to have happened, I know that I cannot change them and the pain allows me to see things in perhaps a more positive light when otherwise they would seem unimportant or not worth a thought because everything is going along in a supposed good manner.