Great, Roxy, get all Slytherin at her and make everyone feel defensive, good job, cuz
I think everyone just got a bit overly upset over things. And it turned into two different issues. Or rather people didn't get upset about it, until Sadie's name was brought into it and compared with the Stiles thing because honestly, I can't see any similarities there at all.
Yeah, it bothered me that a drunk guy I don't know was in the house overnight. Lots of things could have happened because nothing is predictable when people are drunk. That's not saying anything bad about Stiles himself, it's just that things happen. What if he'd stumbled into the wrong room in the night, what if he'd been ill? I said elsewhere that I like to actually know a person before I have to help save them from choking to death on their own vomit.
And then there's the side that it's not exactly appropriate to have that kind of behaviour around children.
And yeah, I really truly don't see any similarities between Stiles coming over drunk and Sadie needing a place to stay because she's 13 and on her own. That's the bit that actually upset me, when the comparison was made and it made her and Hermione feel that they can't live here any more.