Sometimes we hide from the truth because it is painful, it seems impossible because how can the people who love and care for us be so cruel to others. That just comes with age and experience. Seeing the truth, more comprehension.
It is sad when kindness is uncommon, but I have never believed in being cruel or indifferent, even if it is seen as idealistic. And Percy, well, he may act inane at times, but he has a good heart and has always been far more understanding than most in his class. Sees more in people than just what is on the surface. He married me, after all, despite what others said and believed.