Peter
Peter, you're not the only one that's lost people. I have, too. I'm not saying that what I went through was worse or anything, I'm really not. But there was Jonathan, Anya, Spike for a while, I hate to admit that lost count of how many Slayers I've seen die, and I don't even know if my family is alive at all since Sunnydale. And all that time I never actually got hurt until recently. And it's not your fault, so don't think it is.
Peter, it's okay. Really. I'm not grudgy or anything. I just don't like to see you miserable so I try to help.