Graham
It's horrible, something that hurts and will haunt you. But it's not an excuse. And to take that away from others? It's selfish and petty.
I don't understand it either. How long Snow and I ran, saving Charming. Every time a plan of hers failed, she did something else to ruin Snow's life until she cast the curse and separated them. Ruined lives with no care except what it did for her.
Honestly, I don't trust her. I feel she's trying to play everyone. If she weren't suddenly claiming motherly concern for Snow, I might be able to believe it more. I know she cares for Henry as much as she can, but Snow?