I'm afraid you'll need a better excuse than that. My husband was very young when he went to war as well. Many of my friends and neighbours were as well. Most of them who did come back did so with less venom in their tone than you have.
In this particular instance, no one was harmed. Why don't we all be grateful for that and keep an eye out for each other for the next time. There's no reason we should have to treat every single day we survive here as a battle. War can be long and drawn out when there's nothing left to fight.