You're right. With all of it, and I need to say it but I'm just not sure how to make them all understand.
It's so cliche, wanting them all to get along so I can keep all my friends and still be with him. But its what I want. I think its all that I want.
It might help. He doesn't know you though so he might be a bit wary as to why you're bothering. He tries to find reasons in everything. Tell him you know me, tell him you're my friend, and maybe it'll help.
Getting them to sit down, well that's a whole other story. And potentially risky.