Pete
I don't care if she's "different". Good, you talk and hang out and she means a lot to you. But being that tied to someone, especially in this amount of time? It's not healthy. Living with/in the same building, working for them? Every aspect of your life is tied to them. You two can be adults and 'able to handle it' but that doesn't make it any less unhealthy.
But obviously you're not going to listen so whatever.