We invited Tony to a barbecue that we were having in our residence, and as at that time neither you nor Clint were getting along, we thought it best to not invite you to avoid tension on anyone's part at the event, and so that no one would feel uncomfortable. This was a one time event, and we didn't want Tony to feel left out, as Thor had just arrived.
I apologize that we offended you or hurt your feelings in any way, as it was my suggestion to invite him and not you. At that time, it seemed the best course of action. In hindsight, perhaps I was wrong.