With me, its not about the Originals cause hell I'd run from them too. Its what you did to the Salvatores. Played one against the other, used and abused them and continued to do so. Its how you treat Elena. Its what you were willing to do to Molly because what, Moriarty flattered you, offered you money? You've never tried to be a good person. Not ever since I've known you.
You're twisted up inside and I'm honestly convinced you can never be anything more than that.