No. I wasn't a kid at 13. I don't think I was ever much of a kid. I was a hero. And then it all fell apart. My brother died, at 17. Being a hero.
My parents were wrong to make us what we were so young. I didn't think so then, but looking back on it now, they were wrong. My daughter is 8 now. And I don't want her to be a 'hero' until she's lived a childhood.
You missed your birthday, Tough. Deal with it, because you're not acting like a grown up right now.