You had to change, to adapt so you could survive what the War threw at you. You needed to be strong enough to take it and strong enough to make the decisions you had to. Sometimes I wonder if the Doctor truly understands that.
Rassilon undoubtedly had his fingers in a lot of pots for a long time before then. But you got out of there when he did not. He is still inside the Time Lock with no way out. And you and I are out here, living.
I will be there shortly. I am just going to give her something to ensure she stays unconscious for a few hours. Can't have her contacting the Doctors.