It seems we all ready have something in common. Palpatine took me from my parents when I was very young and he raised and trained me. I am sorry for what Vader did to you and your family. Looking back, I was nothing more than Palpatine's tool. I was supposed to kill Luke Skywalker to exact his last revenge. That didn't exactly turn out the way he planned, thankfully.
That is a good quality. One should never run from what they used to be. As much as we may not like it, it is a part of us, and we just need to accept it. It is about who we are today and how we choose to live.