Ruby
I would, but I'm pretty sure you're gonna pass the message on without me having to bother.
And it won't freak her out if some strange version of her old man shows up? No. I'll find an appropriate hole to bury myself in. You just tell her that her dad is taking care of some business. Make up a hunt. Research venture. I don't care. Do what you gotta do. I don't think I could handle
Your husband thinks that he's supposed to save the world on his own. He thinks the apocalypse is on him. He thinks that nothing could be worse than watching the war you're trapped in now rip everyone and everything apart.
What he didn't think about was how much worse it could get if he tried to handle things his way.