Sometimes, and only then it is because I want to know if it would have been safer for them in Russia despite the threat against them. Though, I also know that knowing would do no good, they are here as am I, what happens there happens and what happens here will happen. Holding onto an idea of what 'should' or 'will' happen will not help anything.
So I have been told, though I am sure there are those who would disagree. But thank you. And I think that wise. Family is incredibly important, especially in trying times like this.