No, the fall of my gender was all on its own, certainly. In this day and age, the cultural dropping of the ball, so to speak, especially in America, is completely on us, I'll give you that.
But the ridiculous expectations you birds set for us and romanticism? That's on Dirty Dancing. Yes, well, how many women in this generation have bothered with those books/films? Not nearly as many, even you've got to admit.