So, I've been having some dizziness and a lot of fatigue and back pain. It seems like pre-eclampsia, based on the research online that I've done, but I can't really get a read on what is normal, versus common but not necessarily normal. On a scale of one to ten, one being that I barely notice and ten being holy fucking shit, dizziness is a 1 when I'm laying down, 4 when I'm standing (like in the shower for example), 5 or 6 when I'm walking or moving around. Fatigue is probably an eight or a nine and my back pain is like a 7.
Also, when is too early for them to come? I keep reading that twins and multiples come early sometimes but I wonder when I can relax, you know? When's the point at which it's like "okay, it's safe now, whenever they come?"