Ruby
Maybe ease up a little here, Ruby. I've got experience on her side of this coin. There is no "wrong" here. Dying isn't easy, and neither is coming back, not for most people. The only reason I'm so blase about it is because I'm fucked up in the head. Most people aren't even going to be capable of coherent words after a resurrection, especially if they remember their death.
She needed time. So did I, after my first two. I get where this is coming from, don't get me wrong, but she's not wrong for needing some time to get her head back on straight.