» I have a feeling you won't, but at least you know you can. » My mom did, too, when my grandpa died. Some people just go into automaton mode because they need the distraction. » You don't have to do it alone, Clark. I told you, if you need anything, I'll always be here for you. That does not exclude making funeral arrangements. » Want me to tell Jo we're sleeping over at Superman's place so you're not alone with your thoughts? We both know the boys don't let me sleep much anymore, anyway...