Dad
I know exactly why you're glad Jen is gone, and I have never been anything less than perfectly respectful of Needy feeling even more strongly the same way. I also know exactly why I was friends with her, even taking those things into account. But my reasons for liking anyone are not things you generally ask about, and which are pretty irrelevant in Jen's case because she's gone back to where she's dead and you can't stop saying how glad you are for five seconds.
If you went home and then, say, Mara or Ben showed up here and told me how glad they were that you were gone away and dead again how do you think I would feel? I'm not asking if you think they'd be justified, I'm asking you whether you can see how that would hurt me and generally be kind of mean of them.
I appreciate that you helped me with Ava, and that you want to fix things with everyone. I don't want to fight with you, it's just there are certain things I won't just take in stride.