Ruby
No, he's had it sense then or he'd have lost a limb or something already. Sam has common sense, he just needs to use it.
Ruby, would you like me to come over? Because throwing things won't help. Sure, you'll get it all out, but afterward, you're still left with all of the emotions.
Do it again, and make sure he actually listens and understands.
You're not ruining anything. Stop it. Degradation gets you nowhere. Both of you need to get yourselves together noq. You can't blame yourself on things that aren't your fault, or say you ruin things when it's not something you did. Do you two need me to sit with you and play mediator or what And he's got a lot to work on too.