No. This isn't what he needs, not at all. You're just going to make it harder on him, and on yourself. He's gonna have to detox again when this is over, and you'll beat yourself up over it and he'll beat himself up over it and he'll pull away from both of us and throw himself back into working... until next time one of you gives in again.
I'm trying to work with you here instead of just exorcising your ass, Ruby. If this is gonna happen every time something goes wrong around here, how am I supposed to be okay with you being married to him?