Sam
I think they would too and I've got to problem telling them that they "have to". Just be ready for them to tell us where to shove our suggestions, if any of them want to go it alone.
The only one I've seen act like that so far is And we won't be able to be there to bail them out. I know. But we can't be running around keeping tabs on all of them. We do what we can and if they decide to do this for the long haul they're going end up to seeing that it isn't that easy. That there isn't a 'one trick fixes all solution'. And even good luck