The mention of his wife did bring him pause. It wasn't that he had stopped loving the Hapan Queen, far from it. But time, the seal and his past had changed things. She had never quite accepted the side of him that Tahiri understood and likely she never would. It was just something he had come to terms with. "I know you're not her." he said simply, tensing slightly, at least until she took his hand. He would be there for her of course, and some things would have to change. He knew that too much as it would take some getting used to for him. For them both if he was honest.
"You'll be careful. I won't let anything happen you. Either of you." He'd find them a doctor, he'd work everything out. And he'd keep them safe whatever it took. Well, more or less whatever it took. Probably not start a war. He suspected Tahiri wouldn't take it well.
As for how he was, he knew very well that she was worried how he'd react, what he'd do, and honestly, he wasn't entirely okay with the news yet. It would take him time. His Force presence was focused but very much conflicted. But he would be there for her. He didn't want anything to change and he didn't want to become his parents.
"I will be. I won't deny it was a shock. I expect it was for you also. But I'll figure it out, we will figure it out."