Ehhhh that's more subjective. When it's me, I think it's shit happens and people I offend probably think it's horrible. Whereas when it's you, I think it's horrible and you probably have a more shit happens attitude. But sure.
Also not exactly what I said but I'm kind of over trying to help you understand the difference between nice and respectful because it's been months and you still don't get it, so whatever.
Fine, being a jerk is great, it makes you tons of friends and gets you laid all the time, which is what you've been looking for here, from what I can tell.