I suppose that would make sense, yes. You require passes to see somebody backstage? I wish you luck in your endeavours.
I had never considered that it could be otherwise but I am glad that people are allowed to be happy as they are. Not many couples at all could say they were happy where I am from - even marriages between a man and a woman were often for diplomacy or practicality rather than love. To love and be loved is a very rare thing indeed.