I won't say "I understand", because I don't know what the rest of you are going through. But I can see the was it effects you, and if you need Jehan to stay here, then you know he's welcome for as long as you both want.
Jehan told me a little bit about his. Apparently I was sort of useless to you all, and I feel bad for that. I'm sorry if my dream self wasn't helpful.