I think it's more how RECENT mine have been that are just plain bothering me. I mean it's not so much in the past like it is for you. I look forward to the bothering, and fighting, and make up sex and getting old, and I don't know that grey is going to make you that much less attractive. You're marrying the gangly ginger after all. Puddings are amazing. I'll even make the kind that aren't instant. If that's not devotion, what is, huh?