Pryde. Why are you letting her and her moodswings get to you because of that. Like I said, it's your business and your life. Not her's. So stop giving her the power to have that sort of holiday dimming effect over you, because that does make her a bitch. Comprendez?
Her opinion on things didn't stop you from running off and dancing on people's faces, did it? No? I didn't think so.
Enjoy your holiday with the girlfriend you do have instead of whatever husband she'd disapprove of anyway, and stop letting her gnaw away at the edges of you.
You'll forgive me for saying all of this, at some point. Don't dance on my face over it, though.