I just admitted there's a middle ground. I gave you there's 'compatible' people for people, but not for everyone. Come on. Some people are just irritable, can't tolerate anyone--there's no 'right guy' or girl for that person. It just happens, love. Don't worry.
And I just said, I don't have a negative outlook, or a positive outlook; I just realize both bad and good happen, and there's no 'love conquers all' thing going on in this world. Not everyone has a perfect 'right for them' type. And some people have multiple 'right for them' types. There's your middle ground.