Why can't they understand you're making it BETTER?
Back home, our way of sibling interaction consists of a kick to the shin, a bruising punch in the arm, or a headbutt. It's my sis' way of saying "I love you" without ever saying it. Then I tell her to pop out more nieces and nephews, because she started at age 14 with that, and I hope she reads that for the punch to the gut she gave me when I showed up at the airport.
I'm not familiar with See's Candy. Is it good? I'll trade you a choco-marshmallowy teacake for one!