I dream about being an angry turtleman leading an entire planet of angry turtle men and joining one of my best friends and her motley crew in a battle against a race of gigantic machines that commit galactic genocide every fifty-thousand years.
We just kind of have to accept that these dreams are happening and there are people we know in them. I don't mind a fight, but I'm not an angry turtleman and there aren't any Reapers coming to kill us all.
You're not whatever you dream you are either, just like someone else I know isn't going to level a city just because she dreams she does, or another person I know isn't what he thinks he is, and is a real person.
You're who you make yourself to be, here. If it means getting help, find it. There are a lot of people who want to help you. Let them.