Jemma/Barry
Which is perfectly natural. But that doesn't change the fact this impacts your health and I'm your doctor, and this is something we've been keeping an eye out for the past three years.
Which I can understand. However that doesn't change the fact that the longer you say nothing, first the worse the feeling of discontent will be, but also the more likely it is to be found out another way and depending on how that happens? It will be far more unpleasant than the thought of telling someone on your own terms.