I couldn’t give you the why, unfortunately. But just remember that you’re not that person. It’s hard to separate it, yes, and trust me, I get that.
What I can offer you, however, is my company. Someone you can talk to when you need it. I’ll listen without judgement. Because you are NOT your dream self.
I know this is the OC, but if I have to comfort you the same way my big brother comforts me, I will. Which normally means curling up on the couch with hot chocolate, ice cream and some silly ass movie.