John is a good guy. Anyone says otherwise doesn't know my brother.
So, you can actually talk to him and his girl just fine over video chat then, unless you don't know Raven. I don't know who knows who around here.
If people look at you funny, that's when they can fuck off. It's not weird to see. I might actually have to brush up a bit more on my ASL. Been a while since I've had need to use it.