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𝒷𝓁𝑜𝓈𝓈𝑜𝓂 ✿ (blossomed) wrote in valarnet,
@ 2020-04-22 12:53:00

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blossom, harley quinn, roman godfrey

Why are some girls so mean?

Like honestly, what does that get for them? Is it a power thing? Is that it? Ugh, I knew teenagers could be cruel but I thought that was just high school, y'know? All those weird cliques that go on in school and how you need to find the right place to belong, and the hierarchy stuff. But I really did think by the time people got to college it was different!

I almost don't want to choose a course just because of the people in it.

They're so sucky.

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	sheeeyut 2020-04-22 02:13 pm UTC (link)
	Was someone mean to you? (Reply to this) (Thread)

	blossomed 2020-04-22 02:33 pm UTC (link)
	It's typical girl stuff, you know? Making fun of my name, correcting little things, asking questions to embarrass me. All stuff I thought was left behind. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	sheeeyut 2020-04-22 02:51 pm UTC (link)
	Fuck 'em. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	blossomed 2020-04-22 03:05 pm UTC (link)
	I know it shouldn't bother me, I really need to stop being so sensitive. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	sheeeyut 2020-04-22 03:08 pm UTC (link)
	That's all horse shit, you know. There's nothing wrong with being sensitive. Be you and fuck anyone who doesn't like it. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	blossomed 2020-04-22 03:16 pm UTC (link)
	The 'fuck everyone' thing is a little harder when you're sensitive to what people think and say. I wish it could be both, but it's a very steep climb to get there. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	sheeeyut 2020-04-22 03:30 pm UTC (link)
	Do everything at your pace, but their whole "You're too sensitive" shit is just them not wanting to take responsibility for hurting your feelings. It's not you, I promise. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	blossomed 2020-04-22 03:47 pm UTC (link)
	Yeah, I think I realised that a little, the lack of responsibility on their part. Round about senior year when everyone was acting like I was their friend instead of accepting they bullied me all four years. I guess it just takes working on the confidence. But thanks. It's good hearing it's not bad to be sensitive sometimes. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	sheeeyut 2020-04-22 03:49 pm UTC (link)
	You seem confident enough to me. You can be confident and still not want to be treated like shit. Do you have to work with them or something? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	blossomed 2020-04-22 04:12 pm UTC (link)
	Sometimes it's easier than others. Face to face with the pretty, popular girls? It's a little intimidating. I'd be classmates. I was thinking on taking the photojournalism course, but I don't think I will now. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	sheeeyut 2020-04-22 04:38 pm UTC (link)
	Do you think you aren't pretty? In my experience, people try to drag people down that they're intimidated by. You got a photo portfolio? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

blossomed
2020-04-22 04:43 pm UTC (link)

Oh! Don't get me wrong, I'm very happy with my appearance. But I wasn't always, and it's still a struggle when conventionally pretty girls are rude about things, like my hair or my teeth.

Is that what people build up by taking the pictures? I don't. I did buy a camera and look into the course. It kinda feels silly not to take the course when I bought the camera, right?

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	sheeeyut 2020-04-22 04:46 pm UTC (link)
	They're stupid and insecure. It would be. Don't let their insecurities become your own. Do it, for you. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	blossomed 2020-04-22 04:59 pm UTC (link)
	You are right! I shouldn't let them dictate what I can do. I'm gonna take the class and I'm gonna be great! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	sheeeyut 2020-04-22 05:03 pm UTC (link)
	Yes you are. Get 'em. (Reply to this) (Parent)

	quite_vexing 2020-04-23 04:51 am UTC (link)
	Shoulda seen the shit people pulled when I was goin' for my PhD! (Reply to this) (Thread)

	blossomed 2020-04-23 08:59 am UTC (link)
	You mean a lot of 'you're not smart enough' and 'why don't you go do 'girl' things' kind of stuff? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	quite_vexing 2020-04-23 09:06 am UTC (link)
	Yep! And then what the other women do. Cutthroat. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	blossomed 2020-04-23 09:11 am UTC (link)
	Yeah. I know that part. That's the whole point. Do people never grow out of this?! Sheesh. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	quite_vexing 2020-04-23 10:35 am UTC (link)
	Sometimes a Karen is always a Karen (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	blossomed 2020-04-23 11:05 am UTC (link)
	Is that like a Becky with the Good Hair reference? (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	quite_vexing 2020-04-23 09:17 pm UTC (link)
	Kind of! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	blossomed 2020-04-25 12:45 am UTC (link)
	I'm super band at those. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	quite_vexing 2020-04-25 01:51 am UTC (link)
	Don't gotta be good kiddo! (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	blossomed 2020-04-25 09:26 pm UTC (link)
	My sister says I'm too much of a nerd to get some of that stuff. Which is kinda true. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	quite_vexing 2020-04-25 10:54 pm UTC (link)
	Nerds are the best though. (Reply to this) (Parent) (Thread)

	blossomed 2020-04-25 11:25 pm UTC (link)
	We're totally the best. Some people are just too silly to notice. (Reply to this) (Parent)