So people who've figured out how to find balance in their lives don't have purpose and goals? I'm sure my instructors at the conservatory and my piano student will be fascinated to know that because I take brains to have fun and amuse myself with ridiculous things I don't have any. So will maman who has managed to run her family's business while fighting health issues and breeding dogs while raising me on her own while my father was building his company and business in Japan. And he's a perfect example of how you end up without time wasters - miserable and alone.