Oh I'm so sorry. I somehow failed to realize I was likely talking with somebody who feels that they have the only valid opinion and just disregard everyone else's if it doesn't match up with theirs.
While I understand this is a topic you are obviously passionate about and your heart is probably in the right place - it's none of your business. You don't know all the facts regarding her life before and I have a feeling that even if I did share them with you, you would still have your same opinion regardless.
She's not a prop. And she's not being used. Or even in the industry at all any longer.