None of that is what I said or could be an accurate deduction to make from what I said.
I want a therapist who can help me process my dreams in a psychologically clinical way, who doesn't think my dreams are just dreams that have no power over who I am or who I can choose to be. I want a therapist who won't brush off the very real fact that my dreams might choose for me who I am, whether I am trying to be different or not.
And I wanted a therapist who I didn't have to prove all this to. Which is exactly what I am now doing.
So I guess that's the answer here. We won't be a good therapist/patient fit.