I can mostly control it, there's the occasional flare. My powers are connected to my emotions, so what I have to focus on is controlling my powers around my emotions and not letting my emotions control me.
I could try, I'm still learning myself, but maybe what I am doing could help you?
It's a ranch, you don't need to be a member of anything. I could take you next time I go and introduce you to Logan, he runs the place.