Erestor is an obsessive-compulsive know-it-all! (_erestor_) wrote in valarnet,
Do you believe if you keep even that misguided and insensitive query in mind, you might think about potential consequences to your actions and of the feelings of others, when and if a similar situation should occur in the future?
Or, at the very least, you might try seeing things from the perspective of the one you are calling names in such an infantile manner, and perhaps it might aid you in developing that sense of empathy which you seem to so sorely be missing or otherwise lacking in, thereof.
I might quote the old adage of judging not lest one be judged themselves, as I'm not particularly religious, but perhaps it is wise advice that you would do well to heed and further dwell upon.
Bear in mind that I'm not saying this to be cruel. It's my hope that it might be to your further betterment as a person, and to further aid you in dealing with other persons in your immediate surroundings, who might find your actions and words to be highly volatile.