My sister was seven when we left, so I...basically raised her.
He's been looking, but through back channels and other ways that don't attract media attention. He's very good at being subversive. If he drags us back, I personally think he'd try to kill me and break my sister into being what he wants in an heir. He doesn't take rejection well.
No, it's not entirely black and white, but I know my sister and I are far better off not being near our father. Yes we had wealth and privilege, but I'd sooner live on the streets than take my father's money and gifts and be what he wanted me to be.