Exactly. They put out more effort being dicks to each other than they would just actually following whatever they claim to believe.
The drive is worth it if it means you don't have to deal with people like that.
I hope so. And good luck with the new place? And seriously, sometimes people have to work weekends. Even if you don't work retail or food, or if you're a boss. Dad's a pediatrician, but sometimes it's an emergency and he has to check on one of his patients if they get admitted to the hospital. Mom owns a bakery and sets her own hours, but sometimes someone calls out and she still has to go and open. Life happens, and I've never heard either of them say the church or temple gave them a hard time about it.