You know. I didn't want condolences or a bunch of emotional reactions from people and up until now I'm grateful that most people haven't even bothered to pay the soap opera that is my life any attention.
But since this situation obviously confuses the hell out of you to the point where you need to start asking pointed questions to a woman who just lost the only person they were going to love for the rest of their very short lives I'm just going to answer you.
I was the case. I hope this clears things up for you.